Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. ~John 8:32


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Practice Makes Progress

The room was spinning when I woke up the morning of the first Candle Wishes 5K walk/run last month. Although I’ve had occasional trouble with dizziness and nausea for some time now, the doctor still isn’t sure what’s causing it, perhaps migraines without the headache.

I just take the meds he prescribed, and it usually clears up quickly. So I took my meds that morning and, even though I wasn’t exactly steady on my feet, with the encouragement of my son, James, and a dear friend who walked with us I did manage to finish the course.

Last year I had told James that I was planning to walk the four-mile course of Borodash on Thanksgiving Day, and I asked him to join me to help keep me motivated. He, unfortunately, thought I understood the need to train in order to be able to do that! Duhhhh—you’d think I could foresee that need. Okay, sure, I’ll try to do a little walking to prepare for it—I promise!

Well, I did do some walking. I even went to the gym two or three times a week with a friend in an attempt to lose some weight, too. Unfortunately, I wasn’t really very serious about training. Oh, I managed to lose a little weight and on Thanksgiving morning I walked the entire four miles of Borodash with James’ encouragement. I thought that was quite an accomplishment! But, lo and behold, he then proclaims I have to do at least two 5K walks/runs this year in order to prepare for this year’s Borodash. Okay, but this is getting to be quite an ordeal. I guess I can do it, but I don’t have to like it!

My first practice walk, the Candle Wishes 5K, is now complete. Did I train for it? No, I walked not even a single kilometer in preparation. Will I find and enter another 5K before Borodash? Yes, but only because I promised my son I would. Will I train for it? That remains to be seen.

2015 Borodash - James & DB - reduced

I certainly know the need for training. Had I trained for the first 5K, I’m sure I would have done better than finishing ahead of only one person—a lady who had recently had knee surgery and whose husband had told her she wasn’t ready! (Happily, she kept trudging along and did finish!)

Why am I not preparing properly for the races? Probably for the same reasons I’m not into exercise and a healthier diet right now. I easily find excuses for not doing what I know I need to do: I have too much to do; I’m too tired so I need to rest a while; let me check my email first—oh, and my Facebook account; I just can’t think about that right now—I’ll think about it tomorrow (the Scarlett O’Hara syndrome); this is hopeless, I may as well give up!

Motivation is the key in any race. Maybe reaching my goal weight or increasing my stamina just isn’t enough motivation for me. I may even decide to drop out of the next 5K.

There is one race I have no intention of quitting…the one Christ has promised to run with me. Paul tells us in Acts 20:24 that we can persevere if we have the right motivation: However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.

Testifying to the good news of God’s grace, the anticipation of bringing another person to Christ—now that’s motivation! With that motive we can without a doubt complete the race.

Does that mean we won’t stumble or fall? No. Does it mean we’ll never want to quit? No.

But just as James kept telling me I could finish the four miles of Borodash, we have plenty of encouragement to keep us going: Do you see what this means—all these pioneers who blazed the way, all these veterans cheering us on? It means we’d better get on with it. Strip down, start running—and never quit! No extra spiritual fat, no parasitic sins. Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we’re in. Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God—he could put up with anything along the way: Cross, shame, whatever. And now he’s there, in the place of honor, right alongside God. When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he plowed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls! (Hebrews 12:1-3, The Message)


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“Moms” the Word

 

This past week, social media was flooded with mommy videos, that include, “what mom really wants for mother’s day”, funny mom stories, and my favorite, the tear jerking videos that reveal the truths about all the mommies of the world. Each video, whether it was a satire or heart felt, hold the same common truth about moms. We will do just about anything for our kids even when it makes us crazy.

I always enjoy my mother’s day. My husband and children go to great lengths to show me they love and appreciate me (I’m glad it’s a forced day to do so otherwise, I’m not sure it would ever happen). My favorite part of mother’s day is honoring the mothers in my life. I have the most incredible sisters and mom; they are true gems to me. Being far away from them is hard but my appreciation for each of them travels the miles.

Each of my sisters at some point, have been a mother to my children, “Just as a nursing mother cares for her children,” 1Thess. 2:7.  My older sister Megan took my eldest daughter, Natalie, every time Olivia had a surgery. I didn’t have to ask. She just expected that Natalie would be hers for the following weeks of surgery and recovery. What my sister did for me was give me the gift of peace of mind. Natalie was loved on and well taken care of when I needed to be at the recovery bed of my sick one. She was mom when I couldn’t be.

Fast forward a few years, when Olivia was diagnosed with PTLD in December. Both my sisters, Erin and Carissa (married to my 2 younger brothers) took turns taking care of Oliver and when the time came that we needed to focus on Olivia’s treatment, Erin and my brother Kevin took Oliver home with them. Again, peace of mind, and I knew he would be well taken care of, well fed, and well loved. Again, how do you repay someone who took over your most precious holy work?

My own mother has given her life to all five of us kids, “But his mother treasured all these things in her heart.” Luke 2:51.  Whenever we were going through crisis with our Olivia, my mom was a rock I could count on. The sky was the limit as to what she did to support Anthony and me and our family. She is the first example of Christ that I had in my life.966064_10151607615249933_2100377279_o

I deeply believe that women have been endowed with one of the greatest gifts given to mankind, the ability to be a mother. Every woman has been micro-chipped with instincts and sacrifice. It’s not a curse, it’s an honor. Not every woman is able to bear life; but to raise life up to glorify Him, YES! All women are called to do that. Some of us have the honor to feel life and have biological children, but our motherhood should not stop there, it should extend out to the whole world. It is our duty to be mothers to all the children of the world.

“Adam named his wife Eve, because she would become the mother of all the living.” Genesis 3:20.

A mother’s love is mighty and can help heal hearts. A mother’s love is rich; it sacrifices until the job is done. A mother’s love is universal; it has no bounds to one language. Her love speaks for itself.

I have many mommy friends that have given me incredible examples of being a universal mom. When they have been unable to conceive, they have traveled many miles, sometimes to China or Korea to be a mother to a child who doesn’t have one. They have taken their dark barren hopelessness and made it a light in a child’s life. I know a mommy that has 3 of her own children but still grew her family all the way from the Congo. I know countless mommies that have opened their home and hearts to motherless babies and children. Thank you for showing the world who Christ is. Often times, being a mom is the best platform to spread the message of Christ to everyone around us.

Being a mother should be celebrated. I challenge every woman to embrace that which has been given. It’s not something to be ashamed of and it’s not a crutch, it’s a gift!

“As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you.” Isaiah 66:13